That dictator needs to go.

We've all been under the spell of a dictator at some point or another. It's the dictator that makes one feel small, needy and cold. Statements like, "You're not doing it right." "You're not there yet." Dictators kick hard and aren't nice. But I've kicking back and so can you. Stop being the dictator's underling and live by a new director! Dump out the scarcity or fear motivators. We are free. There is buoyancy. The joy, the magic, the possibilities are right there, right now.

Simple truth:
Dictators need to be quieted so the voice of possibility can rise.
Love,
Elaine

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